My beloved Sis-in-law Annette - A Blessing from above

Created by doreendj 12 years ago
Initially I felt it would be impossible to write a tribute to my beloved sis-in law because she has been a part of our family since the day she got married to my brother, which obviously entails many years. I wondered, where I could begin to capture so many years of memories of someone who meant the world to our family. However, today I feel compelled to write this because it is her birthday and I miss calling her and talking to her. There were so many things I wanted to tell her before she left us, but I never had a chance…she was gone before I could get to her bedside! Annette was a wonderful kind-hearted person. She became a big sister to me from the moment she joined our family. I felt God brought her into our lives for more than one purpose — not only to become Rajan’s soul mate but to help take care of all of us. She took care of my mom so patiently until she passed away. She was by my bedside holding my hands when I delivered my first child. There was nothing that she wouldn't do for me. She was always giving of herself and always there to lend a shoulder to lean on. Annette was the best thing that happened to our family! There were many memorable things about her that were beautiful. She had a wonderful smile, a great sense of humour, and very charming personality. She loved life and when she was diagnosed with colon cancer a year ago, stage four at the time of diagnosis, she fought hard and long with dignity and grace. She had unwavering faith in her Lord and Savior and accepted His will for her life without questions. When I last saw her she seemed fragile but yet vivacious and upbeat with a very positive outlook. Never once did she seem glum or down about her illness. The last year of her earthly life was a roller coaster of chemo treatments, surgeries, tears of joy and tears of pain. She certainly suffered by all accounts that my brother relayed to me, but never once did she let you think she was in pain. She didn't want to be fussed over and would prefer to share time with her family and friends. Our family is devastated beyond words, and will miss her terribly. We will miss her beautiful smile, warm hospitality and the fun times we had together. Family gatherings will never be the same. I am extremely grateful to God for the many years of wonderful memories that keep Annette alive in my heart. To my dearest brother Rajan - may the many memories you have of the beautiful life you shared with her help you find comfort in the days, weeks and months ahead and may time bring you peace until the day you meet her again. Knowing and seeing how many people cared for Annette and how many lives she touched, is a true testament to her as a person. She will live on in the hearts of many family and friends forever. Anni, thank you for all that you did for me. No one can ever take your place. I was so very proud of the courageous way you faced every bitter trial in your life. You were such an inspiration to me. I wish you were still here with us enjoying life, in fact, I pleaded with the Lord to grant you more time with us, but I can understand why God would want such a beautiful angel on His side from now until eternity. Just know that I love and miss you!